Contributions to the tribute of Marilyn Joyce Hassiak

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Linda Diamond posted a condolence

Saturday, March 11, 2023

After speaking with Ashley last night, I realized that many of our grandchildren do not know the story about how we met. When I was 5 my parents purchased a small cottage in Riverside where I spent summers for most of my childhood. When I was a young teen Marilyn's family moved to a cottage in the community for a few summers. Her cousins Kenny and Bob already had a place there and the rather large group of teens were together from the time we woke up to when we had to be in at night. Marilyn's family then shortly moved permanently from Brooklyn to Newtown. Our friendship was maintained over the next 65 years as was her longtime friend, Barbara, from Brooklyn. No matter where we lived, we spent Xmas with her and her family. Barry was charged to help dress the tree after the kids were sent to bed. For about 5 years he was relegated to only putting on ornaments. When he 'graduated' to tinsel he was so excited he just threw it on. Marilyn fired him and he was never allowed to do the tinsel again. Marilyn was very particular about how the tinsel was to go on the tree, just one strand at a time. Donnie and I sat and watched the process and laughed at the banter. Marilyn was a great daughter. Growing up she had a lot of responsibility for the chores around the house. Cathy was always 'the baby' and Richard was 'the boy', which left every job to Marilyn. When Richy and Cathy moved away Marilyn took on the responsibility for her aging mother. Always the good daughter but probably never fully appreciated. I do remember her on a rope swing going out into the lake and not quite making it! Another fond memory was when she got poison ivy on her tush one summer. It was never dull around the lake. I will always have fond memories of that time.

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Carolyn Mueller lit a candle

Friday, March 10, 2023

Marilyn and the hat. I always think of the hat when I think of Marilyn, even though in recent years I saw her more often not wearing it than wearing it. There was a certain comfort in seeing her wearing the hat of which I'm thinking. That hat expressed confidence, and I always thought, you can be certain of things when you're talking with Marilyn. You'll know where you stand, because she knew where she stood. She was a woman of style and substance, and she will be greatly missed.

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Robin Diamond posted a condolence

Friday, March 10, 2023

Q: What will you miss most about Marilyn? A: Aunt Marilyn was a woman who lived to laugh and always made everyone feel at ease and relaxed. I remember first meeting her when I was 18 and my then boyfriend Brian (now husband) brought me to meet her and Uncle Donnie and we had an amazing day in their pool at a party. So many holidays we spent together! So much laughter and fun! I also remember her love of good food, and a while back I sent her some stuffed cabbage, and she loved it, and now when I make my cabbage recipe, I will always think of her. We will miss you Aunt Marilyn, your style of jewelry and clothes, your smile, your laughter and so much more.

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Shay Miller posted a condolence

Thursday, March 9, 2023

As a banking manager, I had the pleasure of servicing Marilyn and Don with their banking needs. They both were two of my favorite people. Always a "hoot" every time they visited my office. Never exited the branch without stopping into my office for a friendly chat and a laugh or two. My deepest condolences to her family; may their memories be a source of comfort and laughter as they reflect on her life and the contribution she made to theirs. May her soul rest in eternal peace with her beloved Don. Shay Miller

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Linda Diamond posted a condolence

Wednesday, March 8, 2023

Q: How did you meet Marilyn? A: I met Marilyn over 65 years ago at our summer cottage on Lake Zoar. We basically grew up together. Barry and I danced at her wedding and spent Christmas with her and her family every year. Later when we moved to Connecticut, we spent many happy times as families together. Our boys grew up with her boys. I remember how she was afraid to hold Brian hen he was just born as he was only 6lbs 9oz and hers were like 3-month-olds when they were born. She got over that quickly. Her famous wooden spoon was scary to two of my boys, but Sean used to just smile and laugh when she threatened to use it when they misbehaved. She always had a soft spot for him after that. We spent many good times as well as some extremely sad ones together. We have many fond memories of her, and she will be sorely missed.

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Shelton Winair planted a tree in memory of Marilyn Hassiak

Tuesday, March 7, 2023

Peter - All of us at Shelton Winair want to send you and your family our deepest sympathies & heartfelt condolences during this most difficult time. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

A Memorial Tree was planted for Marilyn Hassiak

Tuesday, March 7, 2023

We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Cornell Memorial Home Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree

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Linda Peryea-Raymond posted a condolence

Tuesday, March 7, 2023

Marilyn was such a sweet lady. Always had a smile for someone. She always made me feel welcome at the shop. Her love of shopping always kept me coming in daily as I was her UPS driver. You will be missed my lady. You will always have a place in my heart♡♡.

Marilyn Joyce Hassiak

1941 - 2023

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